Hello, loyal reader. Aren’t you tired of thearguing about NOTHING? Your significant other (S.O.) claiming you’re doingthings you would never THINK of doing? Being accused of doing things withpeople you haven’t even thought of doing anything with? I get it. It was kindof cute at first because that’s how you knew they cared. The fussing, yelling& meaningless debates. It starts out as entertaining – but, it gets veryold VERY fast.

Every time a member of the opposite sex (or samesex for my homosexual readers) makes a wall post on your Facebook page, yourgirlfriend/boyfriend questions you about them. “Who is that?”…”Where do youknow them from?”… “Did you have sex with them?”… then, what do they do? Theyadd them to THEIR Facebook page to monitor your interactions.  OR Perhaps,they follow them on Twitter to do the same. Do they go through your phone,invading your privacy and proving their distrust of you? That is WACK! SUPERWACK! YOU DESERVE BETTER!

First of all, if someone asks you if you’ve hadsex with someone without knowing the situation – they think you’re a hoe! Pointblank, period. Why would you want to be with someone that thinks so lowly ofyou? Leave them. Right now! Don’t wait until you’re finished reading this. Makeit up in your mind that you’re better than that. Seriously. Have you made thatup in your mind? Okay, good. Lets proceed.

Second, perhaps they come back and tell you whattheir FRIENDS (so-called friends) say regarding you. Tisk, tisk, tisk… They maybe severely insecure if their friends’ bad advice is held on the same level asYOUR words. You should ALWAYS be first. Their friends are mostly likely lonely,miserable & deadbeats. What does that say about your S.O.’s (significantother’s) opinion of YOU if it’s held at the same esteem?

Even worse, they have NO REASON at all to makeassumptions. They just imagine things and accuse you of them. Do you know whatthat means? It means they have too much free time on their hands and aren’theaded anywhere in life. If they were busy focused on improving their ownsituation, they wouldn’t have time to hassle you with their imaginaryscenarios. Nova Knows…

Do you get it yet? Their insecurities are lessabout you & MORE about them. They need to handle THEIR issues beforegetting into a relationship. This is the planet Earth & you will come incontact with attractive people EVERY DAY. If they can’t deal with that withoutstarting an argument about it, they aren’t worthy of your love. Who wants toargue every day? Pecking at each other all day is for the birds. A relationshipshould always compliment things more than it complicates things. Therefore,insecure people deserve to STAY single. What do you think?

I Love You,

Nova Giovanni

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